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It's official, I hate #dating, ... I went on my last and final date ever today. Don't get me wrong, the guy was really kind, cute and interesting, but I walked home thinking ' I can't do this again', because it feels too much like a job interview, (bleh) I don't want the creation of my interpersonal relationships to feel like this, (unless it's for an actual job)... You know what? just be my friend, the quickest way to my heart is through #friendship, and if it becomes more, cool, if not , also cool. 😎

Top 10 things flirting taught me:

1. No means no
2. Honesty is hot
3. Brain is an erogenous zone
4. The power of a question
5. Imagination is a drug
6. People who do a good voicemail are my kind of people
7. I am the story (ht J. Winterson's "Powerbook")
8. Second chances are rarely worth it
9. It's OK for men to admit they hurt
10. The flow, and how to go with it
11 (bonus) multilinguals do it better, always

Good luck prompting your way to all that, I guess

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I'd love this to get a lot of shares. It's SFW and I think genuinely helpful - some of Jack's mistakes are ones many make on #dating sites, and I have given useful advice on how to avoid making them. Especially proud of 'compliment, connect, question'. Make your first message stand out, innit.

Protect Your #Privacy on #Bumble
This should not be your responsibility—#dating #apps like Bumble should be prioritizing your privacy by default.
Review Your Login Information
Disable Bumble’s Behavioral Ads
Review the Bumble Permissions on Your Phone
Photos, it’s good practice to limit what the app can even access so there’s less room for mistakes.
Practice Communication Guidelines for Safer Use
eff.org/deeplinks/2025/01/prot

Electronic Frontier Foundation · Protect Your Privacy on BumbleLate last year, Bumble finally rolled out its updated privacy policy after a coalition of twelve digital rights, LGBTQ+, human rights, and gender justice civil society organizations launched a campaign demanding stronger data protections.Unfortunately, the company, like other dating apps, has not...